Life can often feel overwhelming, especially when faced with significant changes or transitions. You know, those times when you want to say no and bury your head in the sand?
After a life of saying no more often than yes, I had to make it a purposeful practice to say "yes." By nature, I'm the first to say why something can't happen or will go wrong. There are usually a million reasons why an idea won't work. I call it the "Eeyore Effect."
Then, starting around 58, I decided to say yes when I wanted to say no. I made it a game—"How many times can I say yes?" to friends, family, colleagues, and strangers. I'll leave it to you to determine what you shouldn't say yes to, i.e., putting your Life in danger.
During the last 4+ years, I've learned that saying yes to new opportunities can lead to more growth and fulfillment than saying no. You might think this is obvious, but it wasn't to me. LOL!
Here are ten wonderful things that can happen when you start to say "yes":
✅ New Opportunities for Growth and Learning Open Up
When you say yes, you allow yourself to explore new life experiences you might have never considered. Each new opportunity is a chance to learn something new and grow as an individual.
✅ Life Becomes More Prosperous and Fuller
Embracing new experiences enriches and diversifies your Life, making it more fulfilling and exciting.
✅ You Attract More Positivity and Become More Interesting
Positive actions attract positive reactions. By saying yes to new experiences, you become more engaging and draw positive energy from those around you.
✅ You Invite Kindness from Others
When you approach Life positively by saying yes, it reflects in your body, conversations, and how you engage with others. Saying yes invites positivity from others, creating a more kind, loving, and peaceful environment.
✅ You Have More Fun and Forward-Looking Conversations
Saying yes brings new experiences and provides fresh topics for conversation, making your interactions with others more interesting and enjoyable.
✅ Your Confidence Boosts
Each time you say yes and step out of your comfort zone, you build confidence in your abilities and open up to more possibilities.
✅ You Become Better at More Things
Trying new things and gaining new skills naturally makes you more versatile and capable.
✅ Every Day Becomes More Enjoyable
Saying yes creates a positive mindset, and even your most mundane days become enjoyable as you look forward to new experiences.
✅ You Feel Healthier Inside and Out
Engaging in new activities often includes physical and mental benefits, contributing to a healthier lifestyle.
✅ Life Starts to Work Out the Way You Want
Embracing new opportunities leads to a more fulfilling life. By saying yes, you align yourself with your goals and aspirations, and things start to fall into place.
So, start saying "yes!" Start today — with a friend, family member, or colleague. When you think "no," say "yes." The world will open up, opportunities will appear, and your happiness and peace will increase.
Ready to say yes to a conversation to learn more about freelancing and how it can support the Life you want?
Here's to saying "YES" and to your success!
Peace and love,
Jeanne
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